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Dear Ms. Behavior: What do you think of a man who demands monogamy before even being in a relationship? I met Joel at the gym and we’ve had several dates that have, surprisingly, not resulted [...]

Dear Ms. Behavior: My girlfriend recently came home with this new addition to our love bed: a body pillow.  The five-foot-long pillow is like having another person in the bed with us!  Between the bolster [...]

Dear Ms. Behavior, A while back I met a man online who said he had trouble meeting other men.  It seemed like we had some things in common, so we kept in touch by email [...]

Dear Ms. Behavior: My sweet younger boyfriend Jake has invited me to his childhood home in another state for a week-long vacation, and to meet his family. He’s very excited about my visit, and insists [...]

Dear Ms. Behavior: I am very curious and disturbed by the overt hostility exhibited by lesbian women! I am a gay male, active in the community, and have had multiple opportunities to interact with all [...]

Dear Ms. Behavior: I feel that you are the only one who can help me in this crisis, and indeed I have nowhere else to turn.  Here is my dilemma: I happen to look good [...]

Dear Ms. Behavior: My girlfriend Jodi is only 39 but she’s already going through peri-menopause. I feel badly for her – but I also find it tedious.  (I’m 28.)  Her incessant complaints are hard to [...]

Dear Ms. Behavior: My friend Terry met a woman online and likes her a lot. Over the past few weeks, it’s practically all she can talk about. Last night she finally showed me the photo [...]

Dear Ms. Behavior: Stacey and I are getting married, but her family doesn’t want her to invite her beloved grandmother to the wedding. Stacey never specifically came out to her grandmother, and her family is [...]

Dear Ms. Behavior: I have been living with my boyfriend for almost a year now and I am very much in love with him. I appreciate everything he’s done for me and being with him [...]