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Skirting the Issues: The Wall

We met in the backroom of a Dunn Bros coffee shop, with three tables pushed together in a not-so-square rectangle. Twelve or thirteen people—I lost count—some in suits, some not. Government bigwigs rubbing elbows with [...]

Skirting the Issues: Transformation

A few weeks ago, a friend asked me to accompany him to Sunday service at All God’s Children, a church on Park Avenue South in Minneapolis. It had been a long while since I attended [...]

Skirting the Issues: Anniversary

A family anniversary coincides with the day this column is due to my editor. The anniversary? A suicide. My father. 1990. Fifty-three-years old. Depressed and alcoholic. Smith & Wesson .38 caliber. Bathtub. Mom found him. [...]

Skirting The Issues: Hope

Last Valentine’s Day, I penned a column which included a fake billboard and personal ad in my near constant quest for a female date. Sadly, no woman stepped forward to gush, “I want you, Ellie.” [...]

Skirting the Issues: A Radical Idea

Well, Minnesota, it’s January. That means the start of a new session of the Minnesota Legislature. Fair-minded and smart people control the House and Senate, not to mention that one such person also serves as [...]

Skirting the Issues: The Other L Word

The subject at Sunday Buddhism was “calming the mind”—how to handle fears and worries that pop into your brain multiple times a day. The guiding teacher, Tim, opened the floor to questions after his lecture. [...]

Skirting the Issues: Jake

The text showed up on a stunning Sunday afternoon. “In town for three days, would love to see you.”  I didn’t recognize the number and texted back, “Who is this?”  Thirty seconds later, I had [...]

Holiday Gift Guide: Ellen Krug

The Little Black Dress I’m sure I would look absolutely fabulous in this wonderful  Suzi Chin Elbow Sleeve Faux Wrap Dress. Wow! What a great look for under $100. I don’t know about you, but this [...]

Skirting the Issues: Complacency

Anti-marriage amendment. Iowa. Learn from others’ mistakes.  What do these words and phrases have in common? A lot. In early 2009, seven Iowa Supreme Court justices unanimously ruled that gay and lesbian people were entitled [...]

Skirting the Issues: The Book

I was barely eight years old–a human tabula rasa–when I first saw what made girls different from boys.  Thus reads the first sentence of my book, Getting to Ellen: A Memoir about Love, Honesty and [...]

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